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15 Easy Ways To Discover Your Gifts and Talents

DM Whits
5 min readMar 2, 2022

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Black and white photo of six African Americans sitting at a table with beer an pop
Bigmomma and Mason Family (photo owned by Mason Family)

Do you know without a doubt what your gifts, talents and passions are? My grandmother, Ruby Lee, affectionately known as Bigmomma, told me that everyone is born with gifts and talents. My grandmother was a remarkable woman. She was strong, resilient and wise beyond her level of formal education. In her lifetime she picked cotton, cleaned houses, raised six healthy, productive children, and married three times.

Her home was the hub for family gatherings. The family gatherings were open to neighbors and friends. At the gatherings, I vividly remember Bigmomma spreading words of encouragement. She generously gave advice to those who were seeking it.

My sisters and I were not seeking advice when we would spend summers with my grandmother. We would watch our favorite television shows, The Wizards of Oz and The Facts of Life. At the end of each show, there was laughter and good conversation.

African American lady wearing a white dress sitting in a chair green plant behind the lady in a white vase on a white table
Bigmomma at home (photo owned by Mason Family)

We had good conversations and lots of laughs in Bigmomma’s 1972 Chevy Impala. The car didn’t have air. On hot summer days, we would pile in the car for a ride to the grocery store. Her favorite treat was Butter Pecan ice cream.

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DM Whits
DM Whits

Written by DM Whits

I am an educator, therapist, and friend who is passionate about telling stories that curate good thoughts and SMILES! Contact me at dmwhits@dmwhits.com

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